Doug Fields has been a leader in youth ministry for over 30 years. In addition to being a youth pastor at two churches for 11 and 20 years, Doug is the founder of Simply Youth Ministry, the co-founder of Downloadyouthministry.com, the author of more than 50 books, and is currently working with Youth Specialties & Azusa Pacific University (HomeWord’s Center for Youth/Family). More information about Doug is available at www.dougfields.com.

• acknowledgmentsessay writer profilesbefore you dig in [13]1. where do i start? committing to the essentials [19]“In 1979 I was a rookie youth worker with no idea what I was doing. I took teenagers to R-ratedmovies; I had a Jacuzzi party in the baptismal because a 12-year-old thought it wouldbe fun…Thankfully, a lot has changed...”2. why do i feel this way? dealing with discouragement [41]“Discouragement may be the single most powerful feeling that entices great women andmen to exit prematurely from youth ministry.”3. how do i stay spiritually fresh? establishing a heart foundation [63]“Being connected to God on a daily basis is more important than any youth ministry semi-naryou attend or any book you read.”4. what’s most important to students? being with them [81]“As you begin your youth ministry, please keep in mind that programs only exist to buildand strengthen relationships with God and with one another! Relationships are key to ahealthy ministry!”5. how do i work with parents? becoming family friendly [103]“This is an important chapter conceived through struggle and pain. I’d love to save youfrom some of the hurt I’ve caused and experienced.”6. why all the conflict? dealing with difficult people [127]“During my years of leadership, I’ve experienced enough tension to fill an entire book. I’veshed tears, caused tears, avoided conflict, started conflict, confronted conflict, confrontedloudly, made enemies, gained supporters. Sometimes I’ve been right, but often I’ve beenwrong.”7. who’s the leader? understanding submission and supervision [149]“When I struggle in my relationships with those in authority over me, it’s often because I’mcriticizing others when I should be critical of myself. I need to consider the log in my owneye before I point out the speck in another person’s eye. (Have you read that somewhere?)”8. where do i get help? working with a team of leaders [171]“My greatest joy and most difficult task is building a team of other adults who will lovestudents and disciple them…If you find, develop, and empower leaders, you’ ll be a valuableasset to your church and set yourself up for success in future youth ministry.”9. can students handle responsibility? investing in student leaders [195]“If you allow students to lead, you’ ll have the privilege of encouraging, validating, and shap-ingtheir faith.”10. are we doing the right thing? evaluating youth ministry programs [213]“You may be thinking, ‘Why evaluate? I’ve barely started my ministry?’ The earlier you getin the habit of performing regular check-ups, the healthier your ministry will be. You don’twant to wait for major decay to appear in your ministry before you act.”11. how do i make changes? navigating the phases of change [235]“Change has a way of making or breaking youth ministry leaders, especially within theirfirst two years…You have no easy, magic-formula, works-every-time procedure to imple-mentchange, but you can take some definitive actions to minimize conflict.”12. what do i do now? defining a realistic job description for your first two years [255]“If you don’t know what’s expected, you’re doomed to fail. Expectations exist, whetherspoken or not, and you need to discover them to be effective and stay healthy.”epilogue [277]appendix a - youth ministry staff commitment form [279]appendix b - 10 frequently asked questions [281]

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Doug Fields has been a leader in youth ministry for over 30 years. In addition to being a youth pastor at two churches for 11 and 20 years, Doug is the founder of Simply Youth Ministry, the co-founder of Downloadyouthministry.com, the author of more than 50 books, and is currently working with Youth Specialties & Azusa Pacific University (HomeWord’s Center for Youth/Family). More information about Doug is available at www.dougfields.com.

• acknowledgmentsessay writer profilesbefore you dig in [13]1. where do i start? committing to the essentials [19]“In 1979 I was a rookie youth worker with no idea what I was doing. I took teenagers to R-ratedmovies; I had a Jacuzzi party in the baptismal because a 12-year-old thought it wouldbe fun…Thankfully, a lot has changed...”2. why do i feel this way? dealing with discouragement [41]“Discouragement may be the single most powerful feeling that entices great women andmen to exit prematurely from youth ministry.”3. how do i stay spiritually fresh? establishing a heart foundation [63]“Being connected to God on a daily basis is more important than any youth ministry semi-naryou attend or any book you read.”4. what’s most important to students? being with them [81]“As you begin your youth ministry, please keep in mind that programs only exist to buildand strengthen relationships with God and with one another! Relationships are key to ahealthy ministry!”5. how do i work with parents? becoming family friendly [103]“This is an important chapter conceived through struggle and pain. I’d love to save youfrom some of the hurt I’ve caused and experienced.”6. why all the conflict? dealing with difficult people [127]“During my years of leadership, I’ve experienced enough tension to fill an entire book. I’veshed tears, caused tears, avoided conflict, started conflict, confronted conflict, confrontedloudly, made enemies, gained supporters. Sometimes I’ve been right, but often I’ve beenwrong.”7. who’s the leader? understanding submission and supervision [149]“When I struggle in my relationships with those in authority over me, it’s often because I’mcriticizing others when I should be critical of myself. I need to consider the log in my owneye before I point out the speck in another person’s eye. (Have you read that somewhere?)”8. where do i get help? working with a team of leaders [171]“My greatest joy and most difficult task is building a team of other adults who will lovestudents and disciple them…If you find, develop, and empower leaders, you’ ll be a valuableasset to your church and set yourself up for success in future youth ministry.”9. can students handle responsibility? investing in student leaders [195]“If you allow students to lead, you’ ll have the privilege of encouraging, validating, and shap-ingtheir faith.”10. are we doing the right thing? evaluating youth ministry programs [213]“You may be thinking, ‘Why evaluate? I’ve barely started my ministry?’ The earlier you getin the habit of performing regular check-ups, the healthier your ministry will be. You don’twant to wait for major decay to appear in your ministry before you act.”11. how do i make changes? navigating the phases of change [235]“Change has a way of making or breaking youth ministry leaders, especially within theirfirst two years…You have no easy, magic-formula, works-every-time procedure to imple-mentchange, but you can take some definitive actions to minimize conflict.”12. what do i do now? defining a realistic job description for your first two years [255]“If you don’t know what’s expected, you’re doomed to fail. Expectations exist, whetherspoken or not, and you need to discover them to be effective and stay healthy.”epilogue [277]appendix a - youth ministry staff commitment form [279]appendix b - 10 frequently asked questions [281]

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Doug Fields has been a leader in youth ministry for over 30 years. In addition to being a youth pastor at two churches for 11 and 20 years, Doug is the founder of Simply Youth Ministry, the co-founder of Downloadyouthministry.com, the author of more than 50 books, and is currently working with Youth Specialties & Azusa Pacific University (HomeWord’s Center for Youth/Family). More information about Doug is available at www.dougfields.com.

• acknowledgmentsessay writer profilesbefore you dig in [13]1. where do i start? committing to the essentials [19]“In 1979 I was a rookie youth worker with no idea what I was doing. I took teenagers to R-ratedmovies; I had a Jacuzzi party in the baptismal because a 12-year-old thought it wouldbe fun…Thankfully, a lot has changed...”2. why do i feel this way? dealing with discouragement [41]“Discouragement may be the single most powerful feeling that entices great women andmen to exit prematurely from youth ministry.”3. how do i stay spiritually fresh? establishing a heart foundation [63]“Being connected to God on a daily basis is more important than any youth ministry semi-naryou attend or any book you read.”4. what’s most important to students? being with them [81]“As you begin your youth ministry, please keep in mind that programs only exist to buildand strengthen relationships with God and with one another! Relationships are key to ahealthy ministry!”5. how do i work with parents? becoming family friendly [103]“This is an important chapter conceived through struggle and pain. I’d love to save youfrom some of the hurt I’ve caused and experienced.”6. why all the conflict? dealing with difficult people [127]“During my years of leadership, I’ve experienced enough tension to fill an entire book. I’veshed tears, caused tears, avoided conflict, started conflict, confronted conflict, confrontedloudly, made enemies, gained supporters. Sometimes I’ve been right, but often I’ve beenwrong.”7. who’s the leader? understanding submission and supervision [149]“When I struggle in my relationships with those in authority over me, it’s often because I’mcriticizing others when I should be critical of myself. I need to consider the log in my owneye before I point out the speck in another person’s eye. (Have you read that somewhere?)”8. where do i get help? working with a team of leaders [171]“My greatest joy and most difficult task is building a team of other adults who will lovestudents and disciple them…If you find, develop, and empower leaders, you’ ll be a valuableasset to your church and set yourself up for success in future youth ministry.”9. can students handle responsibility? investing in student leaders [195]“If you allow students to lead, you’ ll have the privilege of encouraging, validating, and shap-ingtheir faith.”10. are we doing the right thing? evaluating youth ministry programs [213]“You may be thinking, ‘Why evaluate? I’ve barely started my ministry?’ The earlier you getin the habit of performing regular check-ups, the healthier your ministry will be. You don’twant to wait for major decay to appear in your ministry before you act.”11. how do i make changes? navigating the phases of change [235]“Change has a way of making or breaking youth ministry leaders, especially within theirfirst two years…You have no easy, magic-formula, works-every-time procedure to imple-mentchange, but you can take some definitive actions to minimize conflict.”12. what do i do now? defining a realistic job description for your first two years [255]“If you don’t know what’s expected, you’re doomed to fail. Expectations exist, whetherspoken or not, and you need to discover them to be effective and stay healthy.”epilogue [277]appendix a - youth ministry staff commitment form [279]appendix b - 10 frequently asked questions [281]

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