What I Wish My Christian Friends Knew about Judaism

Robert Schoen is the co-author (with Catherine deCuir) of the novel The Rabbi Finds Her Way and the author of On God's Radar, about his solo walk across America. He is a musician and has served as Composer-in-Residence at Temple Sinai in Oakland, California. He lives in Oakland with his wife, Sharon.Alice Camille, M.Div. (Foreword) is a Catholic author and religious educator. She writes the online column "Questions Catholics Ask" for VISION Vocation Network. Her twenty books include Invitation to Catholicism and The Forgiveness Book.Alice takes God seriously--and the business of religion with a sense of humor.

• AcknowledgmentsPrefaceThe Purpose of This BookA Range of Jewish Lifestyles, Beliefs, and BehaviorsChristians and JewsGoing to Church: The Jewish Roots of Christian Worship Jews, Jesus, and ChristianityThe Jewish ReligionFrom Orthodox ...To Reform ...To Conservative ...To ReconstructionistContemporary Synagogues and CongregationsA Personal ObservationInside the SynagogueThe Torah and the LawPrayers and BlessingsSymbols—The Mezuzah and the Star of DavidThe Role of the RabbiThe Role of the CantorJewish EducationConfirmationCongregation Membership and Paying the BillsThe'TempleJewish PriestsTime for ConfessionWho’s in Charge?Holidays and FestivalsHolidays and the Jewish Calendar Shabbat—-The SabbathThe High Holidays—Rosh Hashanah and Yom KippurSukkotSimchat TorahHanukkah—Is It Really the “Jewish Christmas”?PurimPassoverShavuot—The Harvest FestivalOther Religious EventsJewish Life Cycle EventsA Jewish WeddingLet’s Go to a Circumcision!Baby Namings and Rituals for DaughtersAdoptionAn Invitation to a Bar Mitzvah and a Bat Mitzvah A Jewish Funeral—Saying Good-bye to Uncle Harry You Can Only Get a Divorce If You’re MarriedHome Life, Jewish Beliefs, and Other Interesting MattersIs a Kosher Hot Dog Really Kosher?Jewish FoodDegrees of OrthodoxyConversion to JudaismIntermarriageReligious Apparel and DressHasidim and HasidismCreation, Heaven, Hell, and Life after DeathWhere, When, and How ManyAshkenazic and Sephardic JewsWomen and JudaismJudaism in the WorldIsraelJewish Art and Music 
Mysticism and the Repair of the WorldMoney—Stereotypes, Charity, and the ScripturesPerform a Mitzvah 
Controversial Social Issues 
Old Wars and New Wars 
The Chosen People 
Anti-Semitism 
The HolocaustA Call for Understanding and CommunityGlossary and Pronunciation GuideRecommended ReadingIndex

"Written in a breezy, conversational style and laced with humor, this primer on Judaism delivers precisely what the title indicates. Schoen describes himself as 'a layman and an 'average Jewish American.' He is actually an accomplished musician whose compositions have been played in recital and appear on two CDs. Schoen claims that he wrote the book to present a systematic response to questions about Judaism that were posed by his Christian friends. Schoen begins his guidebook with a clear explanation of the streams of Judaism: Orthodox, Conservative, Reform and Reconstructionist. He then discusses what goes on inside the synagogue, followed by an examination of the Jewish holidays. The final sections deal with Jewish life cycle events, home life and beliefs and Judaism in the world. The book concludes with a plea for inter-faith cooperation. What is truly remarkable about this compendium is its thoroughness and lucidity. Schoen manages to touch briefly on practically all aspects of Judaism-from Israel, the Holocaust and anti-Semitism to the role of women, Jewish symbols, Jewish art and appropriate behavior at a bar or bat mitzvah, Jewish weddings and Jewish funerals. Although Schoen says he wrote the book as a manual for Christians, Jews can also benefit from this masterful overview of their religion, either as a refresher or as a quick source of new information."--Publishers Weekly [STARRED REVIEW]"This compendium of facts, lore, and opinion is intended to help Christians become more knowledgeable about the issues of what it means to be a Jew, what the basic tenets and philosophy of Judaism are, and what problems American Jews face in today's society. Schoen discusses such topics as synagogues and congregations, the Torah, prayers, the roles of rabbis and cantors, and Jewish education. He also explains the holidays and festivals, weddings and funerals, keeping kosher, degrees of orthodoxy, conversion, religious apparel, women and Judaism, mysticism, anti-Semitism, and the Holocaust. Rounding out this very informative book is a helpful glossary and pronunciation guide of Hebrew and Yiddish words."--George Cohen, Booklist"Schoen contributes to further understanding between Americaís Jewish and Christian communities." -- Rabbi Daniel Lapin, co-chair, American Alliance of Jews and Christians; president, Toward Tradition"Schoen's syle is practical, informed, and helpful. A must read for anyone who wants to understand a Jewish friend."-- Monsignor Tom Hartman, The God Squad" With wit and wisdom, Schoen takes the beginner through the basics... Highly recommended." --Dr. Eugene Fisher, executive secretary of the Secretariat for Catholic-Jewish Relations, United States Conference of Catholic Bishops.