“What a welcome addition to Sheri Van Dijk’s dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) books. This one incorporates trauma work in a gentle way, drawing on Van Dijk’s knowledge of the nervous system and how its internal parts work. Exercises facilitate and deepen learning. Throughout the book, Van Dijk encourages the reader to be patient, going at a pace comfortable for them. This book is a treasure for the layperson or clinical professional.” —Betsy Landau, PhD, NYS-licensed psychologist in private practice