Sons of Survivors, Making Peace with Inherited Trauma

Aron Hirt-Manheimer, co-author, served as editor of Reform Judaism magazine (Union for Reform Judaism) from 1976 to 2014 and as URJ editor-at-large until 2021. He co-edited with Irving Abrahamson  Against Silence: The Voice and Vision of Elie Wiesel (Holocaust Library, 1985); co-authored Jagendorf’s Foundry: Memoir of the Romanian Holocaust, 1941-1944 (HarperCollins,1991) and was a coauthor with Arthur Hertzberg of Jews: The Essence and Character of a People (HarperCollins, 1998). He lives in Ridgefield, Connecticut. Marty Yura, co-author, received his BA in psychology at UCLA in1970, immigrated to Israel, and was inducted into the Israel Defense Forces serving as an officer and field psychologist in an infantry brigade during the 1973 Yom Kippur War. Afterwards  he returned to the U.S. and completed his MA in psychology at California State University – Los Angeles (1976). For the next 30+ years he worked as a management consultant in both the computer-based learning and the financial services industries. In 2009, he and his wife, Marti  co-founded Vista Yoga, where he teaches yoga and meditation. He also teaches yoga at a program for veterans with PTSD at Emory Healthcare. He lives in Atlanta, Georgia.Dr. Yael Danieli, Foreword contributor, is a clinical psychologist in private practice, a victimologist, traumatologist, and the Director and co-founder of the Group Project for Holocaust Survivors and their Children (1975) in the New York City area. She has done extensive psychotherapeutic work with survivors and offspring of survivors and has studied their post-war responses, attitudes and the impact the Holocaust has had on their lives. In the last decade, she has created the Danieli Inventory for Multigenerational Legacies of Trauma that allows scientifically valid assessment and comparative international study of this phenomena. Most recently she has founded the International Center for the Study, Prevention and Treatment of Multigenerational Legacies of Trauma: www.icmglt.org

“Two sons of Holocaust survivors, conceived in the same Displaced Persons camp, recount the arc of their converging and diverging lives, and how they reconnected.  A memorable contribution to post-war American Jewish history and to the literature on inherited trauma.”-- Jonathan D. Sarna, University Professor and Joseph H. & Belle R. Braun Professor of American Jewish History, Brandeis University“Aron is a writer possessed of his own special voice. The result is a rare blend of integrity, persuasiveness, and good literary sense.”--Elie Wiesel, author of Night and Nobel Peace Prize Laureate“A remarkable tale of inter-generational karma, alternately courageous and tender, painful and promising, a story of historical reckoning. For all seekers on a quest for spiritual identity, this is a book of enduring hope, a profound testament to how shared memory is vital to healing.” --Tias Little, author of Yoga of the Subtle Body“This strange and haunting dual memoir captures the legacy of the Holocaust and how it carries its ache down through generations. A gorgeous piece of work, it will give insight to anyone who wants to understand what was lost in the nightmare course of the twentieth century. And what was saved.”               --Rich Cohen, author of Tough Jews and The Fish That Ate the Whale, “Making peace with intergenerational legacies of trauma involves a continuous unraveling and acceptance of unbearable memories, emotions, and choices while moving toward liberation and self-actualization. This is what the authors do as they navigate their quest to better understand how the Holocaust impacted their identities and relationships…. to undo and repair the past and heal the world for their parents and themselves.”--Dr. Yael Danieli, From The Foreword“At a moment when the Holocaust stakes fresh claim on contemporary life, Sons of Survivors offers fresh insights on the story that continues to shape our lives. Mixing personal friendship, family history, and profound insights on inherited trauma, Aron Hirt-Manheimer and Marty Yura help us to see our own story with more empathy and wonder. This book will inspire many meaningful conversations.”--Bruce Feiler, New York Times bestselling author of Walking the Bible and Life Is in the Transitions. “This remarkably candid conversation between two lifelong friends is a major contribution to second-generation Holocaust literature and an inspiration to anyone burdened by trauma.”--Rabbi Rick Jacobs, President of the Union for Reform Judaism"The authors work through their traumatic legacy seeking to transform the sheer evil of Nazism into a twofold challenge forJews and non-Jews alike: How can love prevail against hate? and, How can the lessons of the Holocaust serve as a stimulus to achieve Tikkun (repair) of the world." --Alan Berger, Raddock Family Eminent Scholar Chair in Holocaust Studies and Director, Center for the Study of Values and Violence After Auschwitz, Florida Atlantic University