“A lyric coming-of-age story like no other. De Leon uses his singular voice to reflect on migration, masculinity, religion, sexuality, martial arts, music, and more.”—Jen Soriano, author of Nervous: Essays on Heritage and Healing “A coming-of-age cryptogram for the necessary work of defining ourselves beyond the image of our fathers and returning to the roots of our mothers.”—Minda Honey, author of The Heartbreak Years“A mesmerizing and critically important chronicle of global immigration that is at once intimate and sweeping, illuminating and heartbreaking.”—Cleyvis Natera, author of The Grand Paloma Resort“A complex memoir of translation, not only the shedding of mother tongues and traditions that accompanies the complicated and colonialist pressures resulting from migration, but the language of physicality, the ways our bodies both sustain and betray us, and, perhaps most importantly, how that translation succeeds and fails in the ever-enigmatic discourse between fathers and sons. This is necessary reading.”—John Vercher, author of Devil Is Fine“A tumultuous and tender tale of Filipino family history and coming of age. From martial arts to ’90s gaming to ancestral poetry, the love languages are many in this piercing epistle.”—Yona Harvey, author of You Don’t Have to Go to Mars for Love"Enthralling, tender, and heartbreaking. De Leon writes with a keen eye for the pressures society places on men to conform to ideas of masculinity.”—Maurice Carlos Ruffin, author of The American Daughters“This is one of the finest memoirs I've read in years. It demands brave conversations about love and family as it unflinchingly confronts how immigration, racism, class, and gender shape our relationships. I am a better person because of this book.”—Anthony Christian Ocampo, author of Brown and Gay in LA: The Lives of Immigrant Sons