'In Luisa Schneider's ground-breaking study of the dialectics and dilemmas of intimacy in postwar Sierra Leone, 'love' and 'violence' are shown to be semantically and socially ambiguous. Even when an ideal complementarity is posited between men and women, the interplay between subtle persuasion and brute force (in local parlance, 'tongue' versus 'teeth') is not only volatile and vexed but further exacerbated by the incommensurability of state laws, local customs, notions of human rights, and the diversity of individual experience.' Michael Jackson, author of Life Within Limits: Well-Being in a World of Want