I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU THIS

Marian Thurm is the author of nine novels and five short story collections, including Today Is Not Your Day, a New York Times Editors’ Choice. Her novel The Clairvoyant was a New York Times Notable Book. Her short stories have appeared in The New Yorker, The Atlantic, Michigan Quarterly Review, Narrative Magazine, The Southampton Review, and many other magazines, and have been included in The Best American Short Stories, and numerous other anthologies. Her books have been translated into Japanese, Swedish, Dutch, German, and Italian. She has taught creative writing at Yale University and Barnard College, and in the MFA programs at Columbia University and Brooklyn College.

Praise for I Don't Know How To Tell You This"with heartbreaking clarity and profound compassion. . .Thurm's spot-on thumbnail portraits and signature black humor leaven the appalling difficulties her [characters] face." —Kirkus Reviews (starred)“A tender and heartfelt novel about families coming together and falling apart. Marian Thurm creates characters who are so warm and messy and gloriously human, you’ll want to stay with them forever. Only she could write a novel this funny about something so sad.” —Daisy Alpert Florin, author of My Last Innocent Year"I was bowled over by I Don’t Know How To Tell You This not only because this brave and beautiful novel reveals so poignantly the tragedy of dementia, but also because Marian Thurm, while giving us a family that has drunk and witnessed more than its fair share of darkness, nonetheless allows its members to cling to love and hope laced with humor. This is a perfectly crafted novel, resonant with meaning, one that refuses despair and elevates us all.”—Jonathan Wilson, author of The Red BalconyPraise for Marian Thurm"Marian Thurm writes with an authority that is always impressive…and that compels our innocent belief…She writes so brilliantly of the battle of the sexes.”  New York Times Book Review“What is wonderful…are Thurm’s cold, clear eye and her perfect ear for the way people talk…As an observer and reporter, she is wickedly accurate, generously tolerant and wryly amused.” The Washington Post Book World“Exceptional…(Thurm) embraces the ironies and absurdities of the ordinary world and transforms them into a series of small epiphanies.” Newsday“Careful, assured, exact, she is a delight to read. She has a heart that is almost broken—‘almost’  because there’s humor and wit and a glimmer of hope.” Chicago Tribune“Eloquent…Thurm writes with such precision, such attention to psychological detail that she makes this world completely recognizable and true…We come to see her characters in the round, like beautifully shaped sculptures rather than as simple portraits in a frame.” The New York Times“Thurm hits the funny/sad spot every time, whether the subject is bereavement, divorce, betrayal, or some other form of abandonment... (She)…chronicles the frustrations and heartbreaks of contemporary domestic arrangements with a brilliantly light touch." Kirkus Reviews (starred)“Marian Thurm is one of the most delightful writers around…the writing is gorgeous and the emotional truths and pains we all harbor are painfully explored and exposed.” The Providence Journal