Alessandro Morfati had spent years trapped in relationships with narcissistic, aggressive, and alcohol-fuelled partners—the kind of relationships where love slowly turns into manipulation, conflict, and emotional chaos. Those breakups cost him almost everything—friends, family, time with his children, and even his business. But the real lesson wasn’t the divorce itself.It took losing everything to understand one powerful truth: you cannot change other people. You can only change how you see them—and when you choose to walk away. Out of that painful journey came a philosophy that saved him: Amor Fati — love your fate.