The Trouble with Men & Women

There are three levels to every relationship that we can relate on: Physical, soul and spiritual levels. Every level requires different forms of communication and approaches. There are many discontent relationships because of a lack of understanding of the shallow to deep levels that can be experienced. Discussion about "The Trouble with Men & Women" will probably never have an end. Some authors have offered solutions summed up in the suggestion that perhaps men and women are from different planets. While various others insist that the trouble is emotional or maybe physical, still others swearing that it is mental. After years of research and a quest for answers, I have come to the conclusion that "The Trouble with Men & Women" goes much deeper than all of the usual surface issues. I would strongly suggest that "The Trouble with Men & Women" is spiritual. We often build things in this life that come crumbling down after a period of time. One structure that we should build to last above everything else is the relationship bond between a man and a woman (husband and wife). If you lose everything else at least you still have a strong relationship. It is a wise decision to make good and strong relationships a priority. If we get our relationships right everything else will be easier to face. Careers are nice to build but we end up being put out to pasture once we become unproductive or have spent our time quota in the work force. Our relationships are meant to last until our death. Getting married is like catching a tiger by the tail. After having finally caught your dream you are now forced to live with it. Then what? It is better to know what to do before you get into a marriage rather then finding out after marriage that you are little prepared to perform what is required of you. Your tiger can end up eating you alive. I find it curious what some spouses have said off the record about what their relationship is like, what they really think about marriage and what they truly desire for their relationship.