'This eminently readable scholarly study draws on archival evidence from the love letters of more than 100 Americans to reveal that, however reserved their public behaviour, middle-class couples of the Victorian era valued and sought emotional and physical intimacy in private. [The author] unveils a world of sentiment shielded by an epistolary veil in which a couple could display their 'true' selves while developing, testing and celebrating their shared commitment ... The author goes beyond letters to investigate the effect of romantic love on marriage, on sex roles in society and on American religious sensibilities.'Publishers Weekly