Bartkowski draws from a treasure trove of stories to make evangelists understand able and alive. Like everyone else, they struggle to to create workable ways of being men, women, and families in a changing world. - Nancy Tatom Ammerman (author of Bible Believers: Fundamentalists in the Modern World) Bartkowski very nicely mixes methods - combining an analysis of evangelical advice manuals, an ethnography of an evangelical congregation, and in-depth interviews with married evangelical couples - to produce an important contribution to our growing understanding of the complexity, ambivalence, and diversity within American evangelicalism. - Christian Smith (University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill) Using a deft combination of historical material, textual analysis, interviews and ethnographic observation, Bartkowski unpacks the multiple discourses about, and practices within, marriage and families among evangelical Protestants. - Rhys H. Williams (editor of Promise Keepers and the New Masculinity: Private Lives and Public Morality)