'Jessica has developed an insightful and compassionate guide for those who find themselves unable or unready to begin therapy immediately. She offers case vignettes, providing examples of how her advice can be applied in real life. Her words are not only validating but deeply supportive, offering a sense of hope and reassurance to individuals in this difficult position. This is an area that has long been overlooked in current literature. Jessica’s work fills this void with remarkable care. Her approach is grounded in real-world compassion, meeting readers where they are.'Dr Lorraine D. Price, UKCP Registered Psychotherapist, PhD Psych. M.A. Integrative Psychotherapy. 'Jessica Bowers offers potential therapy clients an inviting bridge from self-help literature to the waiting room. This compassionate work sets the standard for an under-resourced niche, with a treasure trove of materials to explore. Her relational approach to therapy shines through the text.'Keith Duckett,Team Leader & Lead Therapist, Bereavement Support & Counselling Team, Walsall NHS Trust Specialist Palliative Care.