Juffer raises provocative questions concerning children's emotions... Recommended. Graduate students, researchers, faculty. (Choice) Juffer values children's media, demanding that we pay attention to how influential their cultural production is. Including cultural analyses of Blue's Clues to YouTube, electoral politics to immigration policy, and education to affect theory, Juffer deepens each field as much as she puts them in conversation with each other through careful, deliberate inspection. Her discussions of emotional intelligence, expression, and management are woven alongside her treatment of children's drawings, art exhibitions, and writings in a way that expands the scope of contemporary media studies. Don't Use Your Words! is a great accomplishment and a true gift to us all—children, parents, and scholars alike. - Sarah Projansky, author of Spectacular Girls: Media Fascination and Celebrity Culture [Juffer] develops a theory challenging the idea that children cannot be viewed as having emotional intelligence. [...] This book is an excellent read for parents, psychological researchers, and educators of all sorts. (Communication Booknotes Quarterly)