"This book is of immense value to contemporary psychoanalysis. In one volume Anna Nicolò provides both an essential guide for those working therapeutically in the complex field of couples and families, and a compelling read for anyone interested in the ongoing development of psychoanalysis. With exceptional intellect and understanding from her many years of clinical work, she demonstrates a truly impressive knowledge of the field of psychoanalysis as a whole. While maintaining her psychoanalytic foundation, she produces undeniable evidence of how psychoanalysis with couples and families challenges our understanding of the nature of the individual unconscious itself – this is a real gift."Mary Morgan, Fellow, British Psychoanalytic Society, Senior Fellow, Tavistock Relationships, UK"The Unconscious and the Family by Anna Maria Nicolò is a compelling and timely contribution to contemporary psychoanalysis. With remarkable clarity and depth, Nicolò invites the reader into the complex world of family and couple dynamics, illuminating unconscious links, transgenerational transmission, and the evolving functions of parenthood. The book moves seamlessly between theory and clinical practice, offering insights that resonate with the challenges of our time. It is both intellectually rigorous and clinically inspiring, encouraging us to rethink the nature of psychic life as inherently relational. An essential and engaging work for anyone interested in the psychoanalysis of families and couples."Elizabeth Palacios, Chair, Couple and Family IPA Committee (COFAP), IPA Training Analyst, GAEP (New Spanish Group) and APM, Spain"Anna Nicolò's groundbreaking book knits fundamental contributions to psychoanalytic and developmental theory with deep clinical experience with couples and families. Nicolo’s eloquent synthesis opens new horizons on how unconscious factors organize families in health and illness. An instant classic, this book will be critical to the growth of the seasoned clinician, the novice, and to all who plomb the enigmas of couple and families."David E. Scharff, Former chair, IPA Committee on Couple and Family Psychoanalysis, USA