'An extraordinary book ... A joy to read and to think with.'-- The New Statesman'Offer[s], above all else, hope for humanity ... should be required reading for everyone.'-- The Guardian'Expansive and generous.'-- TANK'A groundbreaking and necessary read.'-- Book Riot'I felt my brain spark and spin with possibility and confrontation ... in all its bright, rich generosity, it reminds me that our reality is all a fiction.'-- gal-dem'One of the most interesting and inspiring feminist thinkers working in Britain today, Olufemi here cements her reputation as a powerful literary voice as well as a key political theorist.'-- Red Pepper'Reading this book encouraged me and made me feel less alone ... I cannot recommend this book enough.'-- Bad Form'A necessary intervention ... to go beyond the experiential and into the experimental.'-- LSE Review of Books'Intelligent, brave and challenging.'-- Totally Dublin'What is given is the act of giving itself--an invitation to think.'-- Review 31'Lola's writing crackles kindness and oozes fury. Above all, it is direct ... Everybody needs to read this book.'-- SPAM'A manifestation, not a manifesto ... Genreless, genreful ... a living gift with which to make gifts of life.'-- periodicities'Lola's writing ... makes me embrace feeling like a dreamer.' -- Zoé Samudzi, co-author of As Black as Resistance'A balm that soothes the soul and eases the heart ... an open invitation through the portal ... into the otherwise.'-- Gail Lewis, co-founder of the Organisation for Women of African and Asian Descent (OWAAD)'Reading this book wrought magic in my spirit. I am floored! I am flying! ... Here is some breath-giving medicine for this gasping historic moment. Here are some weapons for lovers, for feminists.'-- Sophie Lewis, author of Abolish the Family and Full Surrogacy Now'Reminds us once more: the light is within us!'-- Imani Robinson, writer and curator'I was blown away ... It's rare to come across a voice so committed to challenging every convention ... with such generosity, clarity and freshness of tone.'-- Preti Taneja, author of Aftermath and We That Are Young'Alive with ideas, jokes, dreams, rage and wisdom.'-- Sita Balani, co-author of Empire's Endgame