"'How do we become who we are?' This book brings together contemporary theory and practice—backed by research—from the fields of evolution and development, neuroscience and infant studies, as well as elegant, in-depth case studies. For the serious-minded practitioner, it offers substantive ground for a fuller understanding of the theory and practice of relational psychotherapy." - Ruella Frank, Ph.D., co-author, The First Year and the Rest of Your Life (Routledge, 2010)"Not just an invaluable resource for child and adolescent therapists and a delightful narrative, this book sets a new foundation for what it means to be a relational Gestalt psychotherapist today. It connects relationships and brain growth, in the process providing the neurobiological underpinnings of the organism/environment's ability to cope with the complexity of social life, which is the heart of the Gestalt model." - Margherita Spagnuolo Lobb, Director, Istituto di Gestalt HCC, Italy"This book sets a milestone in the advancement of Gestalt therapy thinking and practice in the 21st century. It is a finely woven tapestry of current advances in child development, relationships, and neurobiology, all held within the integrative framework of Gestalt therapy." - Brian O'Neill, Director, Illawarra Gestalt Centre, Australia