"This book is a timely, sophisticated exposition on the ways the digital world has changed interactions between individuals, and brought new challenges to the analytic relationship. In a non-polemical manner, it raises important questions that many of us have only been vaguely aware of. The editors have brought together an international group of scholars to elucidate the issues, using the movie Her and other films, as an entry into the deep pleasures and dangers of the seemingly ever present, empathic other."-Fred Busch, Ph.D., author of Creating a Psychoanalytic Mind"Andrea Sabbadini, Ilany Kogan and Paola Golinelli offer us this remarkable collection of essays on Virtual Intimacy, discussing, from a psychoanalytic perspective how movies like Her and others can help us to understand our "admirable new world". Instead of being involved in nostalgia for old times and values, or adopting a frenetic adherence to all that is new, the authors face the challenge of understanding how the inhabitants of today, all of us, can remain human even living in a new and ever changing virtual reality, one of the idioms of our time. This is a book that offer an attractive reading but can be also seen as a way of knowing better who and how we are today and will be tomorrow."-Claudio Laks Eizirik"The appearance of virtual reality is as revolutionary to understanding what it means to be a person at the start of the 21st century as was the uncovering of infantile sexuality at the start of the 20th. The outstanding contributors to this volume take the film Her and, like a case by Freud, explore what lies behind our shattered premises of just what is a person, what it is to connect with an other, indeed what even are the defining boundaries of humanity. This is a seminal work opening fresh analytic inquiry to our newly shaken everyday assumptions of philosophy."-Warren S. Poland, author of Intimacy and Separateness in Psychoanalysis